Stand by your MAN!

I would consider myself a good wife, but not one without flaws. I enjoy taking care of my husband, spending time with him, and knowing that I am part of what keeps his world centered and grounded. I love knowing and feeling just how important our relationship is to him, and just how special our life is together. That being said, there are times throughout the year that the family time is lessened, my husband is a bit stressed, and our life seems slightly off it's axis. Work can be stressful, situations can be difficult, and my husband withdraws a bit more from his sheer mental exhaustion. You would think at times like this I would be at my strongest, helping to keep the family upbeat and positive, yet I find myself becoming exhausted and stressed (about all the little things) right along with him.

I guess this is what they call "maturing" or maybe simply understanding your partner better, because now, more than ever, I'm intent on changing my attitude, my behavior and taking hold of my emotions to better "Stand by my MAN." I know I've added stress in the past, or even said things I shouldn't have, but I'm learning now just how much he NEEDS ME to be strong, supportive, and capable of handling things without a fuss.

I've always known I was emotional and easily hurt, but what I'm starting to understand is that the hurt I sometimes feel, I let take over my attitude and outlook. My husband works harder than anyone I know, and deserves the utmost respect and love, so as his wife and BIGGEST SUPPORTER, it's time to put my emotions aside and be the wife I know I can be, by simply being his ROCK, and the one who proudly stands beside him. After all, I know if I do it for him, he's be certain to return the favor.

I Love you, Nathan!